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Face Book is Screaming

9/17/2016

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f FaceBook pages could scream, I’d be deaf. When I look at what friends have posted and reposted every day, most of what I see are screaming, undocumented, divisive, demonizing, dehumanizing, ignorant, gloomy and divisive memes. Most of them play free with the facts or are fact free.I have good friends and family who are liberals, conservatives and almost every one of them is posting these screaming memes. I can’t think of any one of these people as evil or nasty or shallow or mean spirited in person. Yet they post these really nasty and shallow memes. It’s like watching boils erupt on healthy skin. It’s like watching a whole community suddenly having a bad drug trip and attacking each other.
As one friend who posts lots of memes recently said, they are not supposed to be dialogue and will change no one’s mind. So what are they for? Perhaps they are self-cleansing cries of anger and pain? If so, why are they almost always direct or implied attacks on someone else?
I’ve mediated hundreds of conflicts in the courts and in private, and almost all of them start this way—with one or both sides demonizing or dehumanizing or vilifying the other. The challenge for any mediator is to get both sides to listen TO each other rather than shouting AT each other.
Would that someone could mediate this national discussion, these FaceBook conflicts. Would that they could get good people to come out from behind their memes and talk to each other. Maybe it would be sufficient to ask if the memes people post don’t say more about the person posting than about the subject of the meme. Are people really as nasty and shallow as the stuff they post?

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Idaho link
2/24/2021 12:27:21 am

Great post, thanks for sharing it

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Sparks Boilers link
9/21/2022 08:58:47 am

Thiis is a great blog

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Kelsang
2/6/2023 02:52:32 pm

I agree with you. Isn't it just great that the period I chose to log off Facebook was September 2016 and I only logged back on after September 2022. Must've intuitively known that in the era of DJT the Facebook interactions on all sides influenced by political affiliations made most folks lose their minds and behave unlike their usual selves but simply yell and scream at the ones who thought differently. I use my Facebook mostly to interact with personal friends from childhood, college, and beyond. Others use it for promoting their business, career, hobbies, family, posting selfie, meeting new people etc. But looking back I sure am glad I was offline for that time. I would also have been caught up in pointless political arguments but I don't believe I would ever have been a meme creator or poster. I do find some clever, creative, funny, honest, etc but the ones that got the most circulation seemed to those that mocked insulted and stereotyped groups of people you hated.

Nice article Wallace. I hadn't been following this blog so lots of enjoyable reading for me.

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